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Thursday, October 22, 2009

8:54AM - Same day - all different hehehe


SALLY BROMPTON

From Thursday's Globe and Mail

If your birthday is today:

Do what you want to do this year and don't worry what other people might think about it. Too often in the past you have wasted time and energy trying to fit in with the world around you. Let it fit in with you for a change.

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October 22 Birthday Horoscope


 

If Today is Your Birthday: October 22


 

The Year Ahead

Forecast for October 2009 to October 2010

 

 

If You Were Born Today, October 22: Although you are personally magnetic, you have a manner that is slightly intimidating to others, making you a little hard to get close to. You give off the subtle impression that perhaps you don't really need new people in your life. You do, although you tend to be somewhat selective when it comes to your social life, simply because your work is extremely important to you and you value your time. There is a no-nonsense directness about you that inspires trust in others. You give the impression of solidity, strength of character, dependability and honesty. Although you are an idealist and visionary, you still manage to keep your feet on the ground. You don't seem capable of doing things halfway, and that includes your relationships. You are quite focused on achieving in life. Famous people born today: Catherine Deneuve, Deepak Chopra, Christopher Lloyd, Franz Liszt, Annette Funicello, Carlos Mencia.

Your Birthday Year Forecast: With the Sun and Moon in a waxing semi-square at the time of your birthday this year, the period ahead is one of new initiatives and action. You possess quite a bit of energy, but you must be aware that emotions color much of what you do this year. It can be hard to be objective as a result.

The Sun squares Mars in your Solar Return chart. Your energy levels run high this year, but you should watch for hasty or impetuous behavior. Remember that "haste makes waste". This year is likely to be especially busy. You could be rather wilful and impassioned, and it would be best to channel excess energy into healthy physical outlets. Others might find you temperamental. If you suffer from frequent headaches, it is likely that you are not dealing with your own anger or desire to take the lead appropriately. You feel a great need for action, but if you don't know where you're headed, you might take the wrong turn. As long as you channel the excess energy constructively, instead of wasting your time arguing or getting yourself into conflicts with others, you can accomplish much. 

With Mercury in trine to Jupiter, Neptune, and Chiron, your ability to express yourself and to solve problems is enhanced this year. It's an excellent period for opening up communications with others, as you are more sensitive than usual and more willing to listen. Getting your point across is easier, as it's not only about which specific words you choose to communicate, you intuitively express the meaning and intention behind the words. You can effectively use words to comfort, heal, and teach this year. You are also more open to new ways of looking at problems, thus it's considerably easier to find solutions. You may have opportunities to travel this year, and matters related to publishing, teaching, and writing should go especially well. You may find that you have the right information at the right time this year. You could also have big ideas and plans. Work, especially in communications, goes well. Relationships with young people may be particularly rewarding and positive. An optimistic attitude serves you very well. The desire to expand your mind is strong, and this is a good year to take up studies or to further your education. It's also excellent for teaching and speaking.

Mars sextiles Saturn in your Solar Return chart, and work takes on definite shape this year, and you can see results from your efforts, or at least foresee success down the road. This gives you a sense of responsibility and a feeling of directedness and purposefulness. Refining and improving techniques are favored this year.

 

This is a year of enhanced imagination and intuition for you--a fabulous period in your life to discover or rediscover your artistic and creative talents. Refining your skills, organizing your life, and meeting responsibilities are in focus this year. Realistic optimism is your avenue to success. Attunement to your intuition and sensitivity helps you to further your career and wins you respect from others. Intellectual advancements are likely.


2009 is a Number Seven year for you. Ruled by Neptune. This is a year of preparation, chance, and refinement. It is not a time of dramatic changes. Instead, it's a year when reflection on the past is helpful, and when refinements to your life path should be made. It's a good year to study and analyze. Unexpected twists to your life story and "chance" meetings are probable. Advice - take stock of your life in order to prepare for more exciting years to come, examine the past and plan for the future, get in touch with your deepest needs and uncover your personal power, don't strain yourself or actively try to expand.

2010 will be a Number Eight year for you. Ruled by Saturn. This is a year of power and accomplishment. Actively seeking to expand, taking educated risks, and moving forward are highlighted. This is a year of opportunity, particularly in the material and business world, and opportunities need to be seized. It's generally not a year to find a new love partner, simply because the focus is on the material world and your place in the world. This is a problem-solving year in which you can expect real, tangible results. Advice - take action, plan ahead, seize opportunities

October 22, 2009

Happy Birthday
 

Today ...  Tarot.com

Although you can be very kind, you can also turn on people when you realize they've totally taken advantage of you.

Los Angeles Times

Today's birthday (Oct. 22): This year is a turning point. You will gain objectivity and finally understand why you are a remarkable being. Commitments are made in November. February brings new income. March is the most romantic. Cancer and Aquarius people adore you. Lucky numbers are: 6, 26, 51, 33 and 18.

Toronto Star

IF TODAY IS YOUR BIRTHDAY: This year, you often wonder how situations get tossed into limbo when they looked as if they were clear. Learn to regroup quickly. In moments like these, you discover how easily you can turn a situation to your advantage while others scatter. If you are single, you could meet someone who knocks your socks off. If you are attached, the two of you could find this year to be one of the greater years in your relationship. Just be yourself. Capricorn pushes responsibilities on you.

 

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People born today - The psycheology of this date is truly romantic, all for the quiet life. They are lovely men and women, whose sheer enjoyment in doing their chosen thing is immensely infectious to others. This can make October 22 a leader in his or her own way. If they move house to another town, or to the countryside, friends will follow and set up house nearby. What October 22 wants is to enjoy his own version of a good, quiet life and to give that pleasure to those he loves. Frequently, this person will work like a slave in the early adult years to get enough money to enable him or her to do just this. They set up businesses in comparative youth, build them up and sell out at 38 in order to retire. Most of them very resolutely never work again, although they may just take on the odd consultancy task. October 22 has a powerful sense of what is right and wrong and keeps a sharp eye out in his local community to see if he or she can help. Neither sex will be the one to oppose a homeless hostel in their road, or a home for the insane. They don't value property prices more greatly than people's happiness. Nor do they consider their home some sort of fortified castle. Once they have made their fortune, anybody can come knocking for help, will be taken in, housed for a short while and every attempt made to solve the problem. This is one of those dates which gives refuge to other people's troubled adult children and lonely relatives. The women will content themselves with their own passions, dog breeding, riding, or growing things. Quite often they will be extremely successful at this and almost accidentally make more money and a second career out of it. When their children leave home they don't feel bereft, simply seeing it as a passage in life and find something else to do.


Body - A lover of natural remedies, October 22 should try the lemon. Long heralded as a diuretic, and astringent, a good gargle for sore throats, a lotion for sunburn and a cure for hiccoughs, the lemon is a tonic throughout the world. In India the common morning drink is two tablespoons of lemon juice and two of honey mixed with an ounce of water. A little over a tablespoon of lemon juice daily prevents scurvy because of its vitamin C content. Lemon juice is an antioxidant, which is believed to ward off ageing. Pectin is also found in the pulp and lowers blood cholesterol.


Mind - Folklore says that October 22 is traditionally a day when losses can be regained, business expanded and the achievement of cherished ambitions attained. Wear red, the colour of success, and your dreams may come true.

Saturday, June 30, 2007

5:16PM - I have a new favourite band

Arcade Fire's performance at Glastonbury has already made Wikipedia. It is being compared to the 1997 Radiohead legendary one.   BBC is not showing the feed on the website (a mistake), but here is the link to YouTube.  This is from the BBC coverage.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jq6M4PWKvq4&mode=related&search=

I feel near to tears every time I watch this.  It's been a long time since any band has conjured this intense emotion, and I am grateful that I can still be moved like this.We have tickets for their show in Cardiff in October.

Wake Up

Somethin' filled up
my heart with nothin',
someone told me not to cry.
But now that I'm older,
my heart's colder,
and I can see that it's a lie.
Children wake up,
hold your mistake up,
before they turn the summer into dust.
If the children don't grow up,
our bodies get bigger but our hearts get torn up.
We're just a million little god's causin rain storms turnin' every good thing to
rust.
I guess we'll just have to adjust.
With my lighnin' bolts a glowin'
I can see where I am goin' to be
when the reaper he reaches and touches my hand.
With my lighnin' bolts a glowin'
I can see where I am goin’
With my lighnin' bolts a glowin'
I can see where I am go-goina
You'd better look out below

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

9:10PM


Good Vibe Coaching is a resource for understanding why things happen the way they do and how to make it better. Helpful articles, cool music and other good vibes await you at the home page.
 

Relaxing in the Rapids 

 

The Wet RideTwo weeks ago, floating down Cataract Canyon with my sweetie and three rafts-full of his rocket scientist (really) co-workers, I picked up some great LOA life wisdom from our river guides.  Trip leader, Lorenzo, gave us safety instructions the day we were due to run class 3, 4 and 5 rapids.  I've already written about several life lessons I learned from Lorenzo's safety training in my LOA Playground blog, but this tip here is my favorite:

We're told at length how to stay safe on river rapids.  (Basically, stay in the boat!)  But worst case scenario, if you're ejected, and you go under, and you get confused and scared and out of oxygen and panicked, Lorenzo gave this instruction: "Relax." 
 
Relax? 
 
Yeah, right. I'd like to see that.
 
"Yes," he says, "relax." Because when you do, the river will spit you out.  It'll shoot you right back to the top where you will be able to breathe again and can reconnect with your boat.
 
He told us if we're in the rapids under water, we should NOT expend energy trying to swim.  Do NOT waste time trying to go anywhere or do anything.  First of all, we probably wouldn't go the right direction anyway, and second, we wouldn't make any progress.  We'd also be too exhausted to give ourselves real help.  (Self-rescue is the best rescue - I'll blog about that later!)  Not to mention we'd be missing out on the ride of our lives while we struggle against the stream!
 
Rather, Lorenzo said, "Relax and let the stream spit you out."  Which it will happily do, if you just stop fighting it.  It'll take you where you need to go. 
 
Sound familiar? 
 
The stream will take us where we need to go.  Everything we want is downstream.  Stop the struggle, stop resisting.  Just go with the flow, and enjoy the ride. 
 
Yeah, Relax. 
 
All right, I'm starting to like the sounds of this advice!
 
So much so that as we round the corner on our first set of rapids, and I can hear the approaching roar of water, I get excited at the thought of going for a ride in the stream.  I'm ready to put all my safety training to work!
 
But then we get there, and I completely change my mind about that.  I did everything in my power to stay in the boat!  Not that I don't trust the stream, but the boat ride was exciting enough.  Full of "woo hoos" and a couple first degree screams.  (And not just from the ladies.)
 
Just what we came here for, right?  The ride of our lives! 
 
So, now that we're back on dry land living our daily lives, it seems worth asking the question: what are we struggling against?  What are we resisting?  What could we relax into, and enjoy more of?  Where could we let the stream work on our behalf, while we just relax and enjoy the ride?
 
I know I keep saying this, and Universe keeps proving me wrong, but I honestly don't see how it could get any better than THIS!  Thanks for being part of my ride, everyone.  (And for letting me be part of yours.)  It wouldn't be the same without you!
 
Rampage of Appreciation: Cute Frogs, Spiders & Sunrises

 

I made up a new section for this issue to share favorite moments on the river with the intention of inspiring you to become aware of your favorite moments.  We don't need a vacation or special occasion to find these in each and every day, and that became clear as I read my list.  They were each available in regular daily life.  As I suspect they are for all of us.  I especially loved:
  • How everyone on the river waves to each other.
  • Seeing the stars at night.
  • The steady rhythm of Brie's rowing.  No matter how tired or excited she was, her rowing stayed steady and strong.  So dependable Brie is!
  • Washing my face.
  • Listening to that cute frog at night.  (No, not my sweetie.  A real frog!) 
  • Waking up before sunrise.
  • Seeing the little spider on the raft.  Instead of being scared, I wondered how he managed to make a living on the river.  We made it through some scary rides side by side.
  • Washing Brie's and Nate's dishes so they could stay in the campfire circle and tell stories a little longer.
  • Marveling at the different tracks in the sand, revealing hints of unseen life around us.
  • Smelling the amazing world - the river, the food, the fire!
  • Hearing the silence.  And the roaring rapids!
  • Listening to Lorenzo's music, including Johnny Cash's cover tunes and John Butler Trio.

Find your favorite life moments.  They're right here in front of us, every day. In fact, make yours official by posting here (as a comment).  Universe will appreciate the acknowledgement.  : )

Monday, June 25, 2007

7:45PM

a hell of thing to be able to do... interesting stuff though...

 
June 25, 2007
Burdensome Feelings
Blaming Others

As we begin to truly understand that the world outside of us is a reflection of the world inside of us, we may feel confused about who is to blame for the problems in our lives. If we had a difficult childhood, we may wonder how we can take responsibility for that, and in our current relationships, the same question arises. We all know that blaming others is the opposite of taking responsibility, but we may not understand how to take responsibility for things that we don’t truly feel responsible for. We may blame our parents for our low self-esteem, and we may blame our current partner for exacerbating it with their unconscious behavior. Objectively, this seems to make sense. After all, it is not our fault if our parents were irresponsible or unkind, and we are not to blame for our partner’s bad behavior.

Perhaps the problem lies with the activity of blaming. Whether we blame others or blame ourselves, there is something aggressive and unkind about it. It sets up a situation in which it becomes difficult to move forward under the burdensome feelings of shame and guilt that arise. It also puts the resolution of our pain in the hands of someone other than us. Ultimately, we cannot insist that someone else take responsibility for their actions; only they can make that choice when they are ready. In the meantime, if we want to move forward with our lives instead of waiting around for something that may or may not happen, we begin to see the wisdom of taking the situation into our own hands.

We do this by forgiving our parents, even if they have not asked for our forgiveness, so that we can be free. We end the abusive relationship with our partner, who may never admit to any wrongdoing, because we are willing to take responsibility for how we are treated. In short, we love ourselves as we want to be loved and create the life we know we deserve. We leave the resolution of the wrongs committed against us in the hands of the universe, releasing ourselves to live a life free of blame.

Sunday, June 17, 2007

12:28PM

Coach
Get What You Want ezine

June 12, 2007

This bi-monthly fluff-free ezine is filled with powerful content to help you get what you want by leveraging the Universal Law of Attraction. My heartfelt intent is to help you create your own personal miracles, whatever they may be, by challenging limiting beliefs, playing with energy, and knowing anything is possible!
 
Good Vibe Coaching is a resource for understanding why things happen the way they do and how to make it better. Helpful articles, cool music and other good vibes await you at the home page.
 
Is Your Word Power Wimpy?

How to Strengthen Your Creative Word

brick wall

"I'll call you tomorrow."  "The check's in the mail."  "No, I don't mind at all."
 
Sometimes we utter phrases like these knowing there isn't a scrap of truth in them.  But do we have any idea what it costs to give our word carelessly?
 
Many consider stretching (or being inconsiderate of) the truth an inevitable part of life that spares feelings and smooths life out. 
 
But deliberate manifestors know it's a setup for dimishing our creative power.  When we give our word and don't mean it or honor it, we detract from our power to create our world with our word. 
 
Example: in order to expect saying "I am a money magnet" will manifest as truth, you must be truthful with your word in other areas.  Saying "I'm busy" to dodge an unwanted invitation, or telling employees "We didn't see it coming" while announcing layoffs planned for six months, etc. you sacrifice the integrity of your word.
 
That translates into a weak word in your manifesting world.  By training yourself to use your words powerfully, you amp up your attraction factor. 
 
How do you do create powerful words?  Simple: start treating your word like gold.  When you say you'll be there, be there.  When you answer a question, let it be the truth.  If you make a promise you can't keep, clean it up.  Honor what you say.
 
That way each time you say something, you train yourself to believe it.  And then you can say "I am a money magnet" and have it really mean something.  When you have integrity with your word, you'll come to believe that saying something is as good as done!
 
Tips & Tricks: Weighing Commitment & the Feel Good

 

The next trick becomes what to do when we're at cross purposes with our spoken word and our "feel good."  Sometimes we discover keeping our word creates a conflict with a high vibration. 
 
For example, it sounds like a fine idea at the time to host your girlfriend's parents who are coming to town for two weeks, but as the date approaches you're filled with a mixture of regret and dread.  What to do when you want to maintain your integrity, keep your promise, and still follow what feels good? 
 
Here are three helpful tricks to have a powerful word and a high vibe:
 
First of all, make your commitments carefully and with thoughtful consideration.  Don't make promises you can't - or don't want to - keep.  Set yourself up for success; don't agree to something that doesn't agree with you.  It helps to get good at saying no.
 
Second, if your feel good changes on something, address it.  "Tom, I know I said I'd meet with you tomorrow night, and I'm now feeling overwhelmed with my week.  Can we discuss a reschedule?"  Things change in life, including our minds, and punishing ourselves by doing something just because we said we would isn't the point.  Cleaning it up when we recognize our new desire is.
 
Third, don't underestimate how good it feels to keep a commitment.  Doing what we say we'll do simply feels good!  Knowing people can count on us to speak the truth and follow through on what we say is a vibe-raiser in itself.  A nice side benefit is that when you develop the discipline to consistently honor your word, you become much more selective in giving it!
 
Fun Resources
 
Anyone interested in joining me by phone for an hour of LOA Q&A?  I'm setting up a fr ee monthly call ("LOA in the Real World") that allows us to discuss your burning questions and offer coaching to those who don't have a coach on retainer.  I'm thinking it'll be a good time for us all!  We'll launch in July, so stay tuned for date, time and dial-in details.
 
Hey, I just heard my favorite coach/healer/musician, Mark Romero, is offering his Tranquility CD free when you buy Suenos and Beyond the WallTranquility is my favorite because it's the first music I've found that, instead of distracting me during work, actually enhances productivity!  Not to mention it's a reliable vibe-shifter for funkiness.
 
Wait, my true favorite is the one Mark created JUST for me, which he does as part of his 1-on-1 work with clients.  My musical prescription was "self-acceptance" - a four minute song that brought me to instant tears.
 
I know, you might be wondering,"Musical prescriptions?  Customized songs?!"  Trust me, Mark is something else!  If you don't have a phone session with him (which I don't think he even advertises), at least treat yourself to his CD collection.
 
Last, keep an eye on the LOA Playground blog this weekend as I report about my white water raft experience in Cataract Canyon!  I'm looking forward to living the analogy Abraham uses for their teaching of allowing!  Woo hoo!
 
About Jeannette

CoachJeannette Maw is an Attraction Coach and founder of Good Vibe Coaching in Salt Lake City, Utah helping clients leverage the Law of Attraction to make their wish lists come true.

Trained by CoachU, North Star Coaching and life in general, Jeannette gave up her corporate cubicle and 12 year financial services career to turn every day into Saturday and help clients get what they want, once and for all. 

Co-author of "101 Great Ways to Improve Your Life, Vol. 3" and "Inspired Attraction," Jeannette can be found walking dogs, rollerblading, watching birds, reading or mastering a new goof off skill when she's not having fun with clients.

What Is Attraction Coaching?

 

 
Tom Landry said it well: "A coach is someone who tells you what you don't want to hear, who has you see what you don't want to see, so you can be who you have always known you could be."

There comes a time when you realize there's an easier way than you've been doing.  When you're ready for expert support to get what you want, call or email (801-596-0904 or jmaw@goodvibecoach.com).   Also find great resources at my place, including articles, suggested books, a vibration evaluator, and my audio message under the "Good Vibes" link.  Please share your thoughts by checking in at the Playground blog!

The highest compliment you can pay me is forwarding this issue to others who will enjoy it as well.  My highest thanks for spreading the word.  Namaste! 

 

Jeannette Maw, Attraction Coach
Good Vibe Coaching
801.596.0904
/ jmaw@goodvibecoach.com

Friday, May 4, 2007

3:06PM - John Wood and Room to Read

Saw him being interviewed on Oprah today.  Since I'm in the UK, there is a delay from when these shows are broadcasted here and in the US.  He was part of a program encouraging the viewers to seek out their own individual callings.  John Wood, a high-powered exec at MicroSoft, living the high life - gave it all up after a vacation to Nepal.  Much like the creater of the Grameen Bank, Muhammad Yunus, he responded to a small, localize need - i.e. books for a one school - and over the years have developed the organizaiton Room to Read which is providing books and schools to improvished areas all over the world. It's an incredible story, really.

What was really hooked me was his answer to a question regarding leaving his high-power job.  He said it was a challenge to let it go, the company was good to him over the years, but in the end he couldn't really believe that making wealthier shareholders wealthier was the way he wanted to go. It was meaningful to me only because it echoed the same feeling I had about working at my old job in TO.  I'm still in contact with a few of them, and they are happy there, so I know this is personal to me. Unfortunately for me, I don't have clear sense of a calling, as Wood's had - only a vague notion of where I should be.  

My old boss, over here, called me a few days ago, and offered me a job for the summer.  Which is really great - it will pay the bills, and I really liked working with him, so it's I'm grateful for it..  But a lot of what the old job was and what this one will be is about waiting for the next step.  I even went as far to check out job vacancies at Room to Read, and there are some, but I would need to be eligible to work in the US to qualify.  I might be cheeky and send it a resume any way, just to see what will come of it .

Here is a section of story on him:

John Wood
I think that a student must have humility and be willing, indeed eager, to listen. I can’t remember who came up with the quote “I never learned anything while talking,” but to me that aptly describes the   student/teacher relationship. – JW


I met John Wood last fall at a fundraising event for his NGO, Room to Read, held at the Vancouver Art Gallery. The encounter lasted a maximum of five minutes. However, he left an indelible impression, surprising me out of my preconceived notion of what he would be like.

After twelve years of global experience working in international development, specifically within the scope of education, I have encountered the full gamut of “personality” possibilities from Kofi Annan to Irene Khan to Taliban commanders. I am rarely wrong about people embroiled in the often chaotic, cathartic, jet-set business of bettering the world. It is a demanding environment that at almost every imaginable moment calls into question a person’s integrity, consistently challenging you to stay true to your higher self.
Few people are able to survive without the inflated sense of self-importance that actually changing the world can harvest on the ego. I can count the number of such people that I have met on one hand. John Wood is one of them. He navigates the world, a crowded room, even a conversation, like a true leader: with the understanding that leadership is a position of service, not a seat of privilege.

2:16PM - Learnt Something New...

May 4, 2007
Celebration Of Enlightenment
Wesak

The arrival of the Taurus full moon in early May signals a time of special celebration, especially for Buddhists. This time is known as Wesak (or Vesak), the celebration of Buddha's birth, enlightenment, and passing into Nibbana (or Nirvana). By celebrating these three events in the life of Buddha, we also can celebrate three major tenets of the Buddhist philosophy. Celebrating his birth acknowledges that he was human and that the spiritual heights he attained are also possible for all of us. Celebrating his enlightenment gives us a goal to strive toward-the full understanding of our spirit's purpose in life. And by celebrating his passing into Nirvana, we celebrate reaching the summit of spiritual growth-complete freedom from the cycle of craving and attainment of oneness with the universe.

On Vesak day, Buddhist devotees may bring simple offerings of flowers, candles, and incense to the temple to remind them that life is like beautiful flowers that soon wither and candles and incense that eventually burn out. Birds and animals may be released in a symbolic act of liberation. Throughout Asia, Buddhists have different names and ways of acknowledging this holiday, but the name most commonly used, "Vesak," is from the Sri Lankan language Sinhalese. In Sri Lanka, the life cycle of Buddha is celebrated beneath the full moon with billboard-sized depictions of the Buddha's life and previous incarnations, fully lit with dancing lights of all colors. Lanterns of delicate tissue paper are made and hung everywhere, along with strands of colored lights.

Buddhist or not, we can all take this opportunity to celebrate the beauty and transience of our human lives while also acknowledging the light within us that offers a connection to the divine and eternal. By focusing on the beauty of both our humanity and spirituality, we celebrate the dual nature of our being and seek to balance them for the highest expression of our existence. Following the pull of the full moon, we connect ourselves with nature as well, letting ourselves be in sync with the tides and aligning ourselves with the cycles of life-both physical and spiritual.

Saturday, April 28, 2007

2:50PM

 
April 28, 2007
One Self Divided
Libra Daily Horoscope

Stressful thoughts and feelings can plague you today even if there is no obvious stimulus inspiring them. If you assess your recent schedule, however, you may discover that a hectic period in your personal or professional life caused you to focus all of your energy on a single area of your existence. You may need to take some time today to ensure that your needs in the neglected parts of your life are addresses in a thorough manner. As you compensate for having overtaxed your body, mind, or soul, you will likely be pleased to find that your exhaustion melts away and leaves behind a pleasantly grounded and peaceful mood.

When we take a balanced approach to living, we can care for the needs of the body without neglecting the needs of the mind and the soul because we understand that each is a vital part of ourselves. Frequently, spiritual-minded individuals spend inordinate amounts of time and energy addressing their souls' needs. Those concerned mainly with physical health or intellectual development can fall into similar patterns of behavior. Yet true well-being is dependant on our ability to see that no one part of ourselves is more important than any other part. We are complex beings with complicated needs, all of which can be satisfied if we are willing to accept that both our whole-person health and our eventual evolution are matters of balance. You will find you are capable of achieving a greater degree of self-awareness today when you ascribe equal levels of value to each element of yourself.

Friday, April 27, 2007

4:49PM - Congrats to my dear Froggy

Has been paid a sum by the BBC for some jokes he submitted.  He even had to sign a contract with them. (I think we will frame it!)

Well, I tell you - there are people who talk and people who do.  You put me to shame, my dear.   xo

Current mood: pleased

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

12:30PM - More stuff to think about

I didn't see this episode, and you need to take the link to the Oprah site to read all the pages that are presented on this topic.  It covers several points of view.

Here is the link.  http://www.oprah.com/tows/slide/200704/20070424/slide_20070424_284_101.jhtml

The is only the first page of the article - there are 13 in total.


 

In the aftermath of the Virginia Tech tragedy, a national debate has emerged after videos and photographs of the gunman were aired on television and spread across the Internet. Does giving attention to killers send a dangerous message?

Having been the first to air the footage, NBC News finds itself at the center of this debate. Two days after the shootings, an overnight package containing what anchor Brian Williams called a "multimedia manifesto" of videos, photographs and writings arrived at the NBC Tower in New York City. Later that night on the NBC Nightly News, a portion of the package was aired.

Brian joins Oprah to discuss the decision. "I think it was, for us, the only decision, with some caveats here. An envelope arrives on our doorstep, a day late," Brian says. "This twisted, strange person sends an overnight envelope between mass shootings. He got our zip code wrong—he called it Rockefeller Avenue and not Rockefeller Plaza—so he was trying to have more impact, but it took two days to get to us."

Brian returned to New York from Virginia Tech's campus the day the package arrived, and he says he was immediately paged to his boss's office. "And I hold this document in my hands and we sit there at my boss's computer clicking on these boxes of new videos to open," he says. "We called the FBI. That was step one."

Did NBC ever consider not airing the videos? "To me there was never a debate. This was news. This is journalism," Brian says. "The debate was, how can we pare back, be as sensitive as possible in editing all of this garbage and profanity, to give a sense of what we have here."

In airing the videos, Brian says the news organization's aim was to answer the questions that had been asked in the previous days. "Did he act alone? Who is he? What was his motivation? What did he do in the two hours the campus wasn't locked down between shootings?" Brian says. "All those four questions were materially answered here."

A sensitive issue »

Monday, April 23, 2007

5:20PM - Going with the flow

 wah!  My career....


 
April 23, 2007
Carried By Fate
Libra Daily Horoscope

Apprehension can make goal fulfillment difficult today as the fear that your expectations will not be met may stall your endeavors at home and at work. The anxiety you feel may be related to an unwillingness to see what your career and your personal life have in store for you. If you worry less about the outcome of individual plans and concentrate on achieving larger long-term ambitions, you may be surprised at the paths your destiny takes you down but pleased with the results of these detours. Consider that you can be optimistic and goal-driven today without setting too much store in any one specific project or plan.

When we recognize that despite our best efforts, fate will often take us in an unexpected direction, we can learn to appreciate the surprises that make life interesting. Instead of mourning the expectations that were left unfulfilled, we can devote the entirety of our mental and physical energy to exploring the new worlds in which we find ourselves. We are less apt to feel uptight or distressed when our plans go awry as we can see that there will likely be benefits to the surprising paths we are now following. This open-mindedness will ensure that we do not waste time trying to fight against the universal current, but instead learn to embrace our destinies even if they are not what we expected them to be. Your apprehension will melt today when you make the conscious choice to give yourself over to fate's currents.

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

1:06PM - Birds and the Bees

Saw a story yesterday about the decine of the bee population in the UK.   The scientist in the story encouraged people to help them by setting up bee homes for the searching queen, and photograhing the bees so they can be identified.  So far, they fear that 5 of the nine species have disappeared.  I have, indeed, ordered what is called a Bumble Bee Rest, which I will set up in the back yard, once it arrives on Saturday. 

I've always liked bees - and the variety I've seen have a blue strip on their bottom.  Very cute. Well, we will see if I build it, if they will come. :-)

10:52AM - It makes me angry

I cannot help but feel for these poor kids and their families. I cannot understand what it takes for a person to believe their pain is so much more important, more potent, than God - insomuch that they feel they are entitled to destroy these lives. Each of these young people had a whole world ahead of them - their own journeys to experience and live out - they own unique destinies - only to be ruined by a selfish adolescent.  How can someone feel that they have the right to take down as many people with them in their own sprial downwards?  I heard that he lined them up, some of them sobbing, and executed them one by one.  This chills me to the bone...

I guess these kids just represented some group that he disliked.  Non-human targets reflecting his own personal rail against the machine.  I don't know...  What is scary to me is that people hang their shit on others every single day, because they represent something unpleasant to them, and think nothing of it.

I just feel so sorry for these families and friends - and this is all so completely unnecesary and deeply unfair.  How do you recover from something like this - how do you get past it?  I wish that they will find some way to make peace, when the time is right.  But for now, they have my deepest sympathy.

US university shooting kills 33
Wounded girl being carried by police
The campus has now been closed and students evacuated

A US shooting rampage at the Virginia Tech university has left 33 people, including a suspected gunman, dead.

There were two incidents two hours apart, at a student dorm where two were killed and at an engineering building where 30 and the gunman died.

Officers said they were working to link the attacks and had a preliminary ID of the gunman but would not release it.

After the deadliest shooting rampage in US history, President George W Bush said the US was "shocked and saddened".

"Schools should be places of safety and sanctuary and learning. When that sanctuary is violated, the impact is felt in every American classroom and every American community," he said.

The state university in the town of Blacksburg is home to 26,000 students.

The shooter shot the door twice at chest level, which resulted in two holes in the door, one of which hit the podium in the front of the classroom
Nikolas Macko, student

Virginia Tech police chief Wendell Flinchum said that emergency services had received a call at 0715 (1215 GMT) alerting them to a shooting at the dormitory - West Ambler Johnston Hall.

He said that two hours later there was a second report of shooting, this time at the engineering building, Norris Hall.

Asked why the campus was not closed after the first shooting, Mr Flinchum said that, at that stage, it was thought to be an isolated incident.

Police believed the first shooting may have been a "domestic incident" and that the gunman had left the campus.

'Many, many shots'

Eyewitnesses said some students jumped from classroom windows to escape the gunfire, which triggered panic on campus.

Some of those locked down inside the university buildings were using the internet to try to glean information about what was happening and many e-mailed the BBC News website.

Nikolas Macko was in a mathematics class in Norris Hall when he heard a series of loud bangs in the hallway which prompted a female student sitting near the door to move to close it.

WORST US SCHOOLS SHOOTINGS
Police take up positions around the campus
1 August 1966 - Sniper Charles Whitman kills 14 people and injures dozens at University of Texas
20 April 1999 - Two teenagers at Columbine High School, Colorado, kill 13 before killing themselves
21 March 2005 - A teenager on an Indian reservation in Red Lake, Minnesota, kills nine

"She peeked out into the hallway, and saw the shooter, so she immediately closed the door. Three other students moved a table that was in front of the room - it seats approximately 40 students at capacity - and barricaded it against the door.

"A few seconds later, the shooter tried to open the door, but my classmates kept it well shut, as they held the table against it from floor level.

"The shooter shot the door twice at chest level, which resulted in two holes in the door, one of which hit the podium in the front of the class room and the other continued out the window. At this point he reloaded, shot the door again - this shot did not penetrate - and moved on to the other classrooms," Mr Macko said.

Virginia Tech student Erin Sheehan said she survived an attack on her German class and described the gunman.

She said: "He was, I would say, about a little bit under six feet tall, young looking, Asian, dressed sort of strangely, almost like a boy scout, very short-sleeved light, tan shirt and some sort of ammo vest with black over it."

Motive unclear

Mr Flinchum said it was unclear if the dead gunman was a student.

He could not confirm that the man was involved in the first attack.

Virginia Tech President Charles Steger said: "Today the university was struck with a tragedy that we consider of monumental proportions."

He said the university was in the process of informing the next of kin of those killed and that counsellors were in place at the campus for student families.

The university urged students to call parents to let them know they were safe.

The deadliest mass US shooting prior to the Virginia attack was in Texas in 1991 when George Hennard killed 23 people and himself in a cafeteria.

The US also has a history of deadly school shootings.

In 1966, the day after killing his wife and mother, gunman Charles Whitman opened fire from a tower on the campus of the University of Texas killing 14 people and injuring 31 others.

In 1999 two teenagers at Columbine High School in Colorado killed 12 fellow students and a teacher before taking their own lives.

VIRGINIA TECH CAMPUS
map
1. 0715, shooting reported at the dormitory building
2. About two hours later a further shooting is reported

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

12:52PM - Well I just couldn't resist...


The funny thing is that today I was feeling envious of a writer who captured and marketed an idea that I was starting to formulate.  It annoyed me that she got to the gate first, because this was going to be my  only one big idea.  And then I read this article.

I just recently read that coincidences are not just random accidents having no  bear on anything, but rather the manifestion of certain principles of being, as described by the laws of attraction.  Yeah, that does feel true to me.

So instead of feeling jealous and annoyed, I'm supposed to feel gratitude that at least I was exposed to this information, and to take away the lesson that sitting on my ass only thinking about stuff will not bring any success. Action needs to be part of the equation too.

pooh. 


April 10, 2007
Too Complex To Covet
Libra Daily Horoscope

Your observation of the lives of the people with whom you share your environment can awaken feelings of jealousy within you today. You may wonder what others have done to have been blessed with such prosperity and feel frustrated at the nature of your circumstances in comparison. Consider, however, that your limited view of the lives of those you envy can work against you today. You likely do not know how hard these individuals work or what their individual values are. But if you waste time and energy coveting that which your neighbors, colleagues, and loved ones possess, you will naturally have fewer resources to devote to achieving your own aims.

We can never fully appreciate the complexities of others' circumstances, so envy is nothing more than conjecture and does little to help us refine our understanding of the world around us. We may see that certain individuals live lives of luxury, but we cannot discern how they attained their abundance or maintain it in the present from simply observing their habits. When we put aside envy, we realize that existence can be rich no matter what our levels of status or socioeconomic standing. Furthermore, our ability to comprehend the differences between outer-world and inner-world success allow us to be grateful for all we do possess while still endeavoring to improve ourselves for the sake of growth. You will no longer be tempted to compare yourselves to others today when you recognize that the definition of accomplishment varies by individual.


Sunday, April 8, 2007

12:42PM

Wow! Well, all I can say, it's really nice to be on this side of the wedding. However, it all went very well, and it was more than I hoped.  We've had a lot to prove to our families, and I think we did okay.  And everyone had a really lovely time.

Also, it was more than I had expected to see how our in-laws got on with each other.  You know, you hope you get on with your own in-laws, but to see both families enjoy being with each other is a great thing indeed. We had a lot of fun, and we spent most of a week together.  My uncle Maurice teared up when we showed up at 6.30am to say goodbye, muttering to us both "God bless you both" (I come from a family of weepers).  It's hard not to smile when I think of it - and the whole wedding will be a happy memory for me.

Kev and I have been sleeping since Friday after dropping my parents at the airport.  But there is more work to do - there is always more work to do :-)

Situation: Eight of Wands

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POSITIONAL (MAIN) MEANING
You are caught in a vortex of intensifying demands.

The card that lands in the Situation position refers to the circumstances you find yourself in with regard to your concern.

The Eight of Wands in this position indicates that you are running to keep up with people and circumstances that seem to be out of control. Being proactive may be difficult now. Stimulating events may demand too much of your attention.

You are caught up in a high tide of escalating consequences. This can be an exciting, if exhausting, time and you could be tested on every level as you move forward. Sometimes it takes courage to cope with the confusion of chaotic changes.


Challenges/ Opportunities: The Hierophant

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POSITIONAL (MAIN) MEANING
Help make the invisible visible.

The card in the Challenges/Opportunities position reflects how you can use creativity to turn a crisis or challenge into an opportunity.

The Hierophant in this position points to someone who is recognized and respected for the qualities that once made them seem strange to others. People like this see into the invisible spaces, communicate with animals, plants or the elements, and generally live in the world but are not bound to it.

Although an extra degree of sensitivity to your experience of life has at times seemed a setback, the Hierophant is now in a position to make it pay. This is a specialist, a person with a gift. With self-discipline, you can turn your unique point of view into a path of service.


Advice: Death

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POSITIONAL (MAIN) MEANING
Free yourself from a past that no longer serves you well and proceed toward the future.

The card in the Advice position suggests a course of action which will harmonize what you want with what is currently possible.

Death in this position advises you to detach from the old order. You may want to close accounts, complete unfinished tasks, and gather your harvest. It is time to move on. If you cut the cords that have bound you to old ways and outdated conventions, you could free yourself to join the sweep of incoming light. This is not an excuse to reject others or hurt them in any way. It is simply a time to move toward your ultimate interests.

Do not allow nostalgia and outworn loyalties to hold you back. Be willing to go through whatever it takes to get to where you really want to be.


Daily Lesson: King of Cups

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POSITIONAL (MAIN) MEANING
Try to model the behavior you would like to see others emulate.

The card in the Lesson position represents the personal investment or sacrifice required to derive full benefit from your current situation.

The King of Cups in this position requires you to consciously release all resentment, negative attitudes and personal grudges. Reach out with your heart, spirit and personality so you can see those in situations around you, even your apparent adversaries, with a loving and benign eye.

It can be a challenge not to be offended by people who are emotionally clumsy, let alone those who have hurt you. As you look into their lives, recognize that we are all mirrors for each other. Act as if you were a loving deity bestowing blessings upon all. Find compassion and empathy within yourself so you will want only the best for all. This can be a difficult challenge where there is too much pride. When wisdom is firmly in control, you will facilitate progress and growth in all the lives you touch.


Near Future: Seven of Coins

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POSITIONAL (MAIN) MEANING
Your approach is working. Be confident as you evaluate the results of your labors.

The card in the Near Future position indicates which way the wind is blowing with regard to your situation. If you follow the Advice card, however, you can improve on or neutralize tendencies.

With the Seven of Coins in this position, you are stepping into a time when you will see the results of your labor manifest. Here you will receive strong, direct affirmation that your ideas and your creativity are bearing fruit. It's not like winning the lottery, but it does become clear to you that the approach you have been taking is working.

You aren't being given a reprieve from continuing the work, but it is rewarding to reflect on what you have achieved. Many others would have given up before now. Be greatly encouraged by this. As your vision manifests on the physical plane, let yourself be inspired to redouble your efforts.

Thursday, March 29, 2007

9:23PM - Readings for the Wedding

As it's a civil ceremony, we are not allowed to use any readings that refer to god or prayer.  My brother will be reading the Irish Blessing, less the phrase "May God hold you in the palm of his hand", which is a shame, because it's my favourite part. 

This, from the Ancient Sanskrit, is the other reading. 

Look to this day
for it is life
the very life of life.
In its brief course like all
the realities and truths
of existence,
the joy of growth,
the splendour of action,
the glory of power.
For yesterday is 
but a memory.
And tomorrow is 
only a vision.
But today well lived
makes every yesterday
a memory of happiness
and every tomorrow
a vision of hope.
Look well, therefore, 
to this day

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

12:02PM - in honour of the arrival of part of the tribe on Friday :-)

March 27, 2007
Your Allies On Life's Journey
Finding Your Tribe

Part of being human is the search for an individual identity. Bound to this strong need to establish a unique persona, however, is an equally intense desire for acceptance. It is when we find our individual tribes that both are satisfied. Our tribe members are those people who accept us as we are without reservation and gladly accompany us on our journeys of evolution. Among them, we feel free to be our imperfect selves, to engage unabashedly in the activities we enjoy, and to express our vulnerabilities by relying on our tribe for support. We feel comfortable investing our time and energy in the members of our tribe, and are equally comfortable allowing them to invest their resources in our development.

The individuals who eventually become members of your unique tribe are out there in the wide world waiting for you. You are destined to find them, one by one, as you move through life. Sometimes your own efforts will put you in contact with your future tribe members. At other times, circumstances beyond your control will play a role in helping you connect with your tribe. If you look about you and discover that you are already allied with a wonderful and supportive tribe, remember that there are likely many members of your tribe you have not yet met. On the other hand, if you feel you are still living outside of your tribe, broadening your horizons can help you find your tribe members.

However your life develops after you come together with your tribe, you can be assured that its members will stand at your side. On the surface, your tribe may seem to be nothing more than a loose-knit group of friends and acquaintances to whom you ally yourself. Yet when you look deeper, you will discover that your tribe grounds you and provides you with a sense of community that ultimately fulfills many of your most basic human needs.

Monday, March 19, 2007

4:56PM - OMG! Less than 2 weeks to go!!!


 


Ace of Cups
in the "Love Situation" Position




Main (positional) Meaning:
This may be a charmed moment in your romantic life. Appreciate how its sweetness permeates your emotional being and relationships.

The card that lands in the Love Situation position refers to social or circumstantial factors which could be affecting your relationship at this time.

The Ace of Cups in this position points to a relationship that may offer kindness, intimacy and support. There is the sweet smell of success in the air. This may lead to a situation in which two parties are capable of looking after each other in a kind and loving way.

Whether the relationship is ongoing or new, what you experience may be astonishing compared to what you're used to. Either way, embrace it and let yourself be loved. This points to a sweet, nourishing and lovely romance. This may be the perfect card for either the start or continuation of a promising relationship.

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

12:30PM - Oscar Wilde

Not my sign, but some of these made me laugh out loud.

Good man, Oscar.

Before the gurus Bhagwan Rajneesh and Chögyam Trungpa came along to amuse us with their confounding insights, a prime dispenser of crazy wisdom was British writer Oscar Wilde. Since this happens to be Oscar Wilde Week for you Scorpios, I urge you to get a sense of how his paradoxical brilliance worked so as to put yourself in a similar frame of mind. Study the following Wilde-isms. (1) "I can believe anything provided it is incredible." (2) "Consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative." (3) "If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you." (4) "Ambition is the germ from which all growth of nobleness proceeds." (5) "Moderation is a fatal thing. Nothing succeeds like excess." (6) "Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul." (7) "Life is far too important a thing ever to talk seriously about." (8) "Everything popular is wrong." (9) "It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious." (10) "Disobedience, in the eyes of anyone who has read history, is humanity's original virtue. It is through disobedience and rebellion that progress has been made." (11) "Do you really think it is weakness that yields to temptation? I tell you that there are terrible temptations which it requires strength, strength and courage to yield to." (12) "Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live." (13) "Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much." (14) "I have the simplest tastes. I am always satisfied with the best."

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